It takes a life to know it’s wonderful..

不多久前次按風暴時才謔說自己和李首富的身家出現大幅度的拉近,發生水退船高的奇異效益,如維持敵不動我又不動的話,身家相對發水,感覺踏實,但不消一轉光境,這個戲劇性的近距離又再發生戲劇性的變化,將我和李首富的財富距離拉遠,遠至一個地平線的兩端盡頭都不能體現的距離,塵世上大概只有堅尼系數裡定義貧與富的參數算式才可較接近的形容我和首富此刻的關係,大市上調而又乏力跟隨的我,感覺當然無奈。

事實上自己一直並沒有變,只是世界在變的時候,別無選擇地位置也會自動跟着變,是一個相對系統發生的作用,不只是財富,一切平貴輕重美醜強弱高低等等,都得先比一比才知位置優劣,唔知市價,最後可能帶來價值上迷失。但,人始終也須得有自己的一套標準,總不成每每要由鄰居富不富貴來決定自己豐足,或朋友幸不幸福來肯定自己的快樂,如此,跟價值定位的迷失比較只會相對地更迷失。

人總會有時覺得自己不夠幸運,有人會建議找些比自己更差更不幸的人去比一比,比較過後,自然就會釋懷,但覺得這樣長此下去只有越加沉淪,我有另一個逆向法子,去看看一些出色的人,要專找那種集天賦異品加後天努力一生出類拔萃才華橫溢的人,提醒自己世間上勁人何只千萬,資質平庸又不努力如己可謂不值一晒,如今比上不足比下有餘之際,都叫賺左嫁啦,想到這點,即刻舒服晒,咁比法,係咪比剩係睇衰嘢有正能量好多呢 ;)

特別推薦心理復康素材:Jason Mraz – life is wonderful

It takes a crane to build a crane
It takes two floors to make a story
It takes an egg to make a hen
It takes a hen to make an egg
There is no end to what I’m saying

It takes a thought to make a word
And it takes some words to make an action
And it takes some work to make it work
It takes some good to make it hurt
It takes some bad for satisfaction

Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la

It takes a night to make it dawn
And it takes a day to make you yawn, brother
And it takes some old to make you young
It takes some cold to know the sun
It takes the one to have the other

And it takes no time to fall in love
But it takes you years to know what love is
And it takes some fears to make you trust
It takes those tears to make it rust
It takes the dust to have it polished, yeah

Ah la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la

It is, it is so
And it is so

It takes some silence to make sound
And it takes a loss before you found it
And it takes a road to go nowhere
It takes a toll to make you care
It takes a hole to make a mountain

Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la life is meaningful
Ah la la la la la la la life is wonderful

Ah la la la la la la it is so wonderful
It is so meaningful
It is so wonderful
It is so meaningful

It is wonderful
It is meaningful

It goes full circle
Wonderful
Meaningful

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